Feelings, the most afraid of hot and cold; Relationship, the most afraid of being aloof
The most painful thing in the relationship is not that the person you love does not love you, but that the person you care about is always hot and cold to you.
Clearly yesterday he was good and affectionately called you baby, today he is the whole person is not right, to you cold perfunctory so that you do not dare to approach.
When he is good to you, you think that you occupy a very important position in his heart, so you are willing to give yourself all, those gentle and lovely, and capricious little temper. But he is suddenly like a changed person, cold to you, the phone does not answer the information does not return, as if you are nothing in his world.
Obviously you are the two most intimate people, but now you see him as if he is looking at a stranger, everything you are unfamiliar with him, you can’t guess what he really thinks, you want to ask him again but you don’t know how to ask.
Because how many times he has done this to you, no matter how you ask, he will find an excuse to fob you off, or not answer.
He always disappears every two or three days, you often can’t contact him, every time is very anxious, also very lost, but when he reappears, you are full of blood and resurrection, so repeat, vicious circle.
But no matter how painful it is, it is still reluctant to give him up, because once there was a good experience, you desperately hope that he can return to normal, you think that wait and wait, maybe he will get better, so it takes time, and finally wears out his patience.
Any fool knows that a person is hot and cold to himself, and if he is aloof, it is because he does not care so much about himself.
A person who truly loves you won’t let your mood go up and down like a roller coaster of insecurity.
Heart is not true love, peace of mind is.
If he does have you in his heart, he’ll make you feel it.
Go through the road to turn back, love and can not let go. When you are worried about gain and loss, in fact, you already have the answer in your heart.
Affection is a relationship of equals, when the other side has begun to be aloof, then don’t take the other side as the only one in life.
Step out of each other’s rhythm and find your own rhythm, and true love will come.
